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Hello my fellow readers! A cheerful welcome to June.. Happy, right? I am sure certain you are considering what causes me to feel glad about June, a little ease in lockdown, a little movement in business, seeing friends after long, getting lucidity on certain things, it’s so acceptable. I know the mango season is about to go now. No, I am not intimidating you. Be that as it may, wouldn’t you say we ought to be taking a glance at the more brilliant side? I mean look at the beautiful rains. I know I might sound stupid while talking good about rains yet don’t you love rains?

Calling it clumsy, clingy, wet, muddy, dirty, hating the humidity that makes everything sticky and so much more. I know our closets sob the most when white isn’t that we pick for quite a long time. Cribbing over your clothes taking forever to dry and not overlooking how horrifying the traffic jams are. But I am sure you might have that one day feeling something special about the rains.

Talking about just 3 days back, rains were pattering outside and I was sitting idle on my window doing NOTHING. Just observing the beautiful sound when rain hits the ground and I lose myself for a moment. It’s so magical, I felt so much alive. I was simply living in the moment, forgetting all the worries. The sound and the astonishing view after such a long summer couldn’t do anything but make me calm and feel myself. The cold breeze just blew my imagination go wild. I was sure, I could tune in to my internal soul and settle on a choice that I at any point needed to however battle nowadays.

Not denying the fact that it’s not generally that you feel content while it’s down pouring. It’s pretty much fine to feel low or to your extreme downside like a hurricane. But your soul is asking for something. See the rains and drench your heart with it. Soak in to love with yourself. You are not alone, the sky drizzling is with you. You are closer to finding your rainbow. Smell the wet earth. Lift up your mood. You will see magnificence in sadness. You will connect yourself with your inner soul.

Let the rain wash away, all the pain, and all the agony, of yesterday..!

Let’s feel that peace again? You see its pouring out there and race to your window. Grab a pleasant drink to yourself. Love bhaji, pakoras? Make them or order them or just run and get them for yourself. You can’t really miss out on things that feed your soul. Play your favorite track. Close your eyes, I see you smiling and cherishing your old memories. Make those decisions that you were confused about. Take a deep breath and go with your intuition. You are connecting with the nature. This beauty is guiding you right. Call your friends, your loved ones. Tell them how beautiful the nature is and how immensely beautiful your relations are.

Trust me with this, my fingers are just dancing automatic on my keypad as I compose this sitting near my window, tuning in to the smooth sound of raindrops and seeing my happy money plant grove with joy. My mood is unquestionably joyous. I am feeling like I am already connecting to you with my blog, not serving a piece of content perhaps pouring my heart out.

It’s definitely a mood. A cheerful state of mind.

I see a flower blossoming after the rain, do you?

Welcome! Welcome! Welcome! Today, before I start with my point let me share you an occasion that occurred with me few days back. Quarantine period, you already know what the circumstance is at our homes. I woke up in the morning uh oops afternoon, prepared for my routine not-so-fun household chores and there my little brother comes.. ”Didi, I am sorry I finished your loved ferrero ice-cream!” and my mind blasts… I have a go at overlooking that and my phone beeps with a message ‘Hey, we couldn’t make it to the client. They are not ready yet. Appears to be a long wait.’ I clearly didn’t want this arghhh! Still persistently experiencing the day and I see my one and only support (my earphones) broke. GOD! What more is yet to come? Panicking than ever before, I tried finding any spare earphone and get my finger squeezed in a cabinet. This is how I ended my day without any productivity yet a lot of actions. I was angry and frustrated at the same time. In short, lot of thoughts running through my mind, making me feel low at the end of the day.

“Why God why?” was my day’s end proclamation. It sounds extremely silly and senseless but I was actually teary eyed after taking a short recap of my day in the end. I was definitely missing out on something. I could make myself feel better. And the question was HOW?

Here, we are not assuming over any science when we address THERAPY. Basically considering the way that there is something that can fulfill us. We generally come across ‘This person is my therapy’. There could be endless things that could make one feel better. These therapies are nothing but a marvel that just lifts up our mood. What are those superpowers that make us forget our problems and help us release those feels?

Therapy! We could be talking about chocolates, ice-creams, candies. Or on the other hand, somebody foodie like me would straight call for a “Bhaiya ek plate pani puri” and the more I am annoyed or frustrated the more “bhaiya aur teekha banao”. In this case, I don’t know but I feel like I am releasing all the anger and frustration with the spice. And the best part lies in the end when I am absolutely fine as soon as my free sukha puri is in my hand. And what when I am upset? Rasgulla, squeeze the tears out of it and eat them with sweet satisfaction.  Oh! I never knew I could find my bliss here. So could you… you could just disappear and go to your favourite food adda and make yourself feel good.

What if we need somebody? We could be possibly sobbing with them… A best friend’s joke, your mother’s lap, your father’s hug, your partner’s shoulder. Have you ever wondered how these little gestures of them could make us forget all our sorrows? It doesn’t seem to be a big thing but its a million little things. We feel the love and warmth from them and that reminds you that you are not alone. Also calling them your happy place!

Asking out yourself for a Me Time could be as cool as being caring for yourself. Grabbing your cappuccino or a kadak chai possibly being therapeutic with yourself, just like a remedy. Sometimes that is all you need. You and just you! Writing down your feelings, sitting in front of the mirror, taking a peaceful nap, meditating in silence or being friends with nature, tuning in to soothing music, dancing over your favorite cover. It’s all so relaxing and de-stressing.

Therapy is truly an energy that we all need to know for ourselves. It could just make our life much better and meaningful than ever. 

It’s okay to be not okay sometimes.

All you need is just a THERAPY!

What is your therapy?